You’ve had a lifetime of experience thrusting, we haven’t – so are acutely aware we could be embarrassing the hell out of ourselves.Help by holding our hips and liftingus up and down or at least move your hips up to meet ours.
Touching the bits of us that we’re self-conscious about
You hate it when we hide our body, we hate it you repeatedly grab onto bits we’ve told you we hate being touched.You think it sends a clear message of approval that our thighs or stomach are lovely and will stop us worrying unnecessarily.
Refusing to wear a condom
Women are far more likely to end up with an STI than men are: we’re physiologically more susceptible than men. We’re also the ones who may end up pregnant. Really? Are you that selfish?
Pushing our heads down during oral sex
What do you think would happen if we pushed a big sausage down the back of your throat?You’d gag, that’s what.Is that something on your list of ‘Things I love to do’?Mistakes that men make in the bedroom include letting the woman do all the work when she’s on top.
Rubbing the clitoris like you’re a boy scout trying to start a fire with two sticks
Great you’ve figured out that women like clitoral stimulation but you missed the point about it being very sensitive.Thrusting too deepSome women like men to thrust really hard and really deep but for lots of women, it hurts..It’s way too easy for your penis to hit the cervix – which is oweeeeee! painful.
Five seconds of kissing is not enough foreplay.Neither is a half-hearted fumble around the breast area. Almost as bad as no foreplay is you going straight for our bits with your fingers immediately as the session starts.It takes time for us to warm up and for our body to respond to yours.Insisting on making us orgasm when it’s clear we’re not going to sometimes it’s just not going to happen for reasons that are nothing to do with you.Refusing to give up trying turns it into an ego thing. Not sexy.